At some juncture in our lives, the yearning for wealth emerges—often while sifting through bills, checking the account balance, or glimpsing extravagant lifestyles on social media. It seems so effortless and enjoyable, doesn't it?
But is it truly effortless, fun, or devoid of stress? Does it yield happiness?
Why do we desire money
Primarily, it enables us to acquire and do things for ourselves and others, settle bills, and partake in experiences. In essence, money helps fulfill our desires and navigate everyday life.
It's a medium of exchange, where you trade your time for money to purchase things.
What are its advantages? Does money equate to happiness?
As mentioned earlier, in exchange for our time, money can also purchase time and freedom.
This is crucial. it's the key to happiness.
Wealth and Happiness Balance
Having money means having the liberty to do almost anything you desire and the flexibility to work when and how much you choose. Although not always feasible, especially in significant roles, it grants the option to work less if not reliant on a salary.
Particularly if your income is passive and not bound to a specific location.
Consequently, you gain more leisure time. It offers the chance to relish life to the fullest, acquiring what you want. It translates to happiness.
You can also assist others or free your parents from work. Imagine their joy and yours simultaneously?
People respect and engage with you, intrigued by your distinctive journey. You possess a self-authored story, making you captivating and esteemed, potentially aiding in forming relationships.
Are there drawbacks to wealth
There are several.
Achieving success usually demands significant sacrifices of time and effort, making it challenging and strenuous.
This pursuit might lead to the loss of friendships and relationships.
A proverb illustrates this—"there are only two seats in a Lambo but 40 in a bus." However, paths diverge, and friends come and go, new connections form. Being among like-minded individuals often eases this transition.
People's behavior might change, some may seek financial help. While aiding loved ones is commendable, it should arise from your own volition.
The belief that "you have plenty to give" can weigh heavily, potentially leading to resentment. Additionally, there might be attempts to exploit or befriend you for personal gain, prompting uncertainty about others' intentions.
Increased wealth can elevate the risk of being targeted for theft or blackmail, necessitating heightened safety considerations, inducing stress.
Conversely, abundant free time might result in boredom if not filled with stimulating activities or hobbies.
In conclusion
While money facilitates ease in achieving happiness, it doesn't directly create happiness.
Wealth and happiness balance is a complex balance, it takes and gives, alters perspectives. Every facet has its positives and negatives; the choice lies in what holds greater value to you.
The crux of life lies in relishing it. Wealth provides flexibility to work more freely, enhancing life through spare time and financial stability.
However, the pursuit of wealth may consume life entirely. Success isn't guaranteed, and dedicating life solely to work might result in deathbed regrets.
Let's hear the final words of Steve Jobs, the billionaire who passed away at 56:
The last words of Steve Jobs, the billionaire, who died at the age of 56:
"I have reached the pinnacle of business success. In the eyes of others, my life is a success.
Apart from work, I have had little joy.
After all, prosperity is just a fact that I'm used to.
Right now, lying in a hospital bed, looking back on my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and wealth I was so proud of has faded and become meaningless in the face of impending death.
You can hire someone to drive your car or make money for you, but you can't hire someone to stand sick and die for you.
Lost materials are found again. But there is one thing that can never be found lost: life.
No matter what stage of life we are in right now, in time we will face the day when the curtain closes.
Love your family, spouse, children and friends... Treat them right. Cherish them.
As we get older and wiser, we slowly realize that a $300 watch or a $30 watch both tell the same time. Whether we have a $300 or $30 wallet or purse, the amount inside is the same.
Whether we drive a $150,000 car or a $30,000 car, the road and the journey are the same, and we arrive at the same destination.
Whether we drink a 1000 or a $10 bottle of wine, the hangover is the same.
Whether the house we live in is 100 or 1000 square meters, the loneliness is the same.
You will realize that your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world.
Whether you're traveling in first class or economy class, if the plane falls, it goes down with it...
So I hope you realize when you have friends, brothers and sisters with whom you talk, laugh, talk, sing, talk about the north-south-east or heaven and earth... this is real happiness!
An undeniable fact in life:
Don't raise your children to be rich.
Teach them to be happy.
When they grow up, they know the value of things and not the price.
How beautiful life is"
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